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		<title>Small Business&#8217; Competitive Advantage</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Author Marc Compeau recently wrote an article on Forbes entitled, Cost-Cutting Won&#8217;t Get You There.  In it he touches on many points that seem to be recurring lately. First, the idea that cutting costs are the ticket to solving financial woes.  Yes, of course, fiscal discipline is important and if your business is bleeding money [...]


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<p>Author Marc Compeau recently wrote an article on <a href="http://www.forbes.com/" target="_blank">Forbes</a> entitled, <a href="http://www.forbes.com/2009/10/26/delight-customers-recession-entrepreneurs-management-compeau.html" target="_blank">Cost-Cutting Won&#8217;t Get You There</a>.  In it he touches on many points that seem to be recurring lately.</p>
<p>First, the idea that cutting costs are the ticket to solving financial woes.  Yes, of course, fiscal discipline is important and if your business is bleeding money because of $200 lunches every day, and last-minute, first-class airline tickets for sales opportunities that could be just as effective via WebEx, then a little fiscal discipline certainly wouldn&#8217;t hurt.  But the bottom line is that, when it comes down to it, the percentage of over-all gains you are capable of attaining through cost-cutting is never going to stack up to the gains you could make by selling more.</p>
<p>Of course, how do you do that?</p>
<p>In the corollary to the <a href="http://www.venturebeat.com" target="_blank">VentureBeat</a> article by <a href="http://blog.mindlinkmarketing.com/about-2/" target="_blank">Scott Olson</a> to which <a href="http://www.workingpoint.com/blog/2009/11/09/being-a-chocolate-and-peanut-butter-entrepreneur/" target="_blank">I responded earlier this week</a> (<a href="http://entrepreneur.venturebeat.com/2009/11/09/excel-where-your-competitors-suck/" target="_blank">Excel Where Your Competitors Suck</a>), Marc points out that great customer service is the key. Good customer service builds good relationships and on-going customer loyalty.</p>
<p>This is great news for small businesses.  In a 24/7 wired world of automated telephone voice trees, website customer service autobots, offshored customer service techs who have to read from a script to answer the most basic questions and email auto-responders, what is business lacking more than decent customer service?</p>
<p>Small businesses have the ability to impact their customers&#8217; perceptions on this front than large businesses do.  Without the large staff, training problems and lack of personal accountability that major corporations face among their ranks, small business owners with small teams can focus on delivering real customer value without making the customer feel like they are a neusance.</p>
<p>There is an added bonus to keep in mind, too: people are far more forgiving of mistakes if they feel like your heart is in the right place.  A faceless corporation will almost always lose that battle, because it is too impersonal.  A small business, with one-on-one relationships that provides a sense of value to their customers is always going to be better positioned to bouncing back from life&#8217;s unavoidable errors.</p>
<p>Your customers talk.  And at least some of the people they talk to are other potential customers.  What are they saying about you and your business?  Give them something (positive) worth talking about, and see where it leads.</p>
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<p>Much thanks to <a href="http://www.sherrylowry.com/">Sherry Lowry</a> from <a href="http://www.bridgingfutures.com/">Bridging Futures</a> for this picture.  As with all items of this type, it&#8217;s eerily familiar enough to be both hysterical and cringe-worthy for those of us who make a career out of this. <a href="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/project-swimlane.jpg">(Click on the image to see the details.)</a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Job hunting is rough for oh-so-many reasons. One of the things that is hardest about it, though, is managing your own attitude and spirits. If there is one thing that is liable to get you into trouble during a job hunt, it is unmanaged anxiety. I&#8217;ve written before about some of the things that I [...]


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<p><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/connecting-people-300x300.jpg" alt="connecting-people" title="connecting-people" width="300" height="300" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-864" />Job hunting is rough for oh-so-many reasons.  One of the things that is hardest about it, though, is managing your own attitude and spirits.  If there is one thing that is liable to get you into trouble during a job hunt, it is unmanaged anxiety.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve written before about some of the <a href="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/2009/04/11/9-unemployment-survival-tips/">things that I discovered were helpful during a job hunt</a>, but in talking to other people, some more questions have come up that I want to offer suggestions about.</p>
<p><strong>Time is Like Money: You Can Only Spend it Once</strong><br />
This is one of those things that is really obvious, but that most of us need the occassional reminder about.  Time is precious, and you have to consider when you are spending it wisely, versus when you are just blowing through it on the temperal equivelant of Twinkies.</p>
<p>A really, really great thing to do while you&#8217;re hunting for a job is finding local organizations to get involved with.  It might be a non-profit, it might be a Meetup group, it might be an internship at a local company.  Whatever it is, consider that volunteering your time gives you the following:</p>
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<li>you are (theoretically) doing something that can go on your resume to help fill in an employment gap</li>
<li>you are networking with people you wouldn&#8217;t normally have access to</li>
<li>you showcasing your skills to a new assortment of people who might have entirely different ideas that might be helpful for you</li>
<li>you are working on things that can give you a sense of accomplishment and pride, which come across in your attitude when speaking to prospective recruiters/employers</li>
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<p>The first thing that people say when you talk about volunteering their time during a job hunt is to counter with the ultra-important point:  but I need to make money.  Of course you do.  No one is disputing that.  But the point is that you cannot spend every possible second of the day job hunting.  Aside from your mental health requiring a break, look at volunteering your time as time spent networking.  If necessary, do it instead of something else (like watching TV).</p>
<p><strong>You Are What You Eat</strong><br />
This one is hard, because when you are looking for a job, it&#8217;s often more comfortable to socialize with people who are either in the same boat or with people we know and with whom we feel safe.  But there is no more important time to work on expanding your social networking than when you are job hunting.  And, even more importantly, it&#8217;ll help keep you sharp.</p>
<p>Just like the food we consume helps determine our physical help, the information &#8212; including the attitudes, personalities, data and social cues &#8212; we consume will determine our mental health.  People look like their friends and associates more often than not.  If your friends and regular social circle are not providing you with the support and motivation you need, then start expanding your horizons to include some new influences.</p>
<p>Is your mother a downer who depresses you for days every time you talk?  Then pick up a couple of cards at the dollar store so that you can write her quick &#8220;Thinking of You&#8221; cards for a while instead of calling her and letting her bring you down.</p>
<p>Is your best friend miserable in their life and only ever want to complain over drinks about how lousy a day they&#8217;ve had?  Then shake things up a bit.  Use being unemployed as an excuse to avoid going out for drinks (too expensive!), and drag them out to do something else instead.  A game of bowling often costs the same as a single drink and lasts longer.  It&#8217;s also a physical activity that will get you both moving a bit, provide some good people watching, and give you other things to talk about.</p>
<p>There is no need to &#8220;dump&#8221; the people you care about.  Just don&#8217;t let them bring you down.  And if some of the most important people in your life are not being helpful when it comes to keeping your spirits up, then it&#8217;s also fair game to tell them that you need their support and help in staying positive.  Most people don&#8217;t realize when they start becoming a downer to be around.  Often times, just pointing out that you are counting on them to keep your spirits up is enough to help them become more aware of their own habits.</p>
<p>I had some other <a href="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/2009/04/11/9-unemployment-survival-tips/">valuable tips I learned</a> that you may want to check out, too.  But the keys I&#8217;ve found are not slipping into old habits, because no matter how comfortable they may be, they are often the embodiment of that old saying:  &#8220;Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.&#8221;  If you need a new outcome, don&#8217;t rely on doing the same old same old to get there.</p>
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<p>Sort of figures: tonight was the first time in weeks I&#8217;ve been able to set aside some time to do some catch-up blogging.  I have a list of things I&#8217;ve been meaning to write about &#8212; I was just trying to work the opportunity into my schedule.  And now that tonight is finally here, I am completely and utterly distracted with the deaths of <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2009/SHOWBIZ/TV/06/25/obit.fawcett/index.html">Farrah Fawcett</a> and <a href="http://www.cnn.com/2009/SHOWBIZ/Music/06/25/michael.jackson/">Michael Jackson</a>.</p>
<p>So, I guess all of the insightful professional, career and business observations I&#8217;ve been collecting for the past few weeks will wait until another day (probably this weekend), because tonight I&#8217;m reminiscing.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t know that I would specifically call myself a Michael Jackson fan, per se.  The truth is that, unlike most of my friends, I&#8217;m not a particularly big music junkie &#8212; I&#8217;m much more moved by movies.  But the fact is that, for someone born in 1975 (give or take a few years), Michael Jackson&#8217;s music is the soundtrack for most of my earliest pop culture and outside world memories.  And despite always having been a pop culture contrarian (even as a child &#8212; which never made me very popular with the other children), there were songs of Michael&#8217;s that I did truly love.</p>
<p>Everything from the advent of MTV (and I vividly remember those, &#8220;I want my MTV!&#8221; commercials) to the one-glove, crotch-grabbing mania were all part of my elementary school memories.  The sentiment that has been flying around Twitter and new clips today has been the idea that Michael Jackson was to my generation what Elvis was to my parent&#8217;s.  And I think that&#8217;s a pretty fair comparison: it&#8217;s something that older generations will rarely understand, and younger ones will eventually experience for themselves when someone iconic finally makes the mark on them and then ultimately dies.</p>
<p>There are interesting things to note about today, though, that are new and which have whose impact is still TBD: social media.  I have spent all evening on Twitter and Facebook watching the news unfold, while livestreaming the news from CNN.com.  The irony, of course, is that I work in a TV station and I have a TV in my office (where I am still sitting after 8:30 p.m.) and it hasn&#8217;t once occurred to me to reach over and turn the thing on.</p>
<p>While Twitter has been dominated for the past week with the protests surrounding the Iranian election results (and didn&#8217;t Iran&#8217;s leadership get quite the break here: all of a sudden the world has instantly stopped paying attention to them for the first time in over a week!), I was only casually following that.  To be online and &#8220;hear&#8221; it first via Twitter, then go searching out news sources to corroborate it was an interesting experience because of the time lag that traditional media experienced after social media, the <a href="https://twitter.com/KevinSpacey/status/2335706788">unfounded rumors that were flying around</a> social media (some of which have been debunked) and the transition from speculation to commiseration as the confirmed news spread across the internet.  Watching both <a href="http://mashable.com/2009/06/25/michael-jackson-twitter/">Twitter</a> and Facebook visibly groan under the strain of the increase in users (see <a href="http://www.steverubel.com/michael-jacksons-death-dominates-google-trend">a snap shot of Google trends</a> in the middle of it all), and watching the way that the detractors felt compelled to jump in and be snarky.  All of it was fascinating to watch.</p>
<p>But I find myself thinking of a comment John Cusack made in the special features track of &#8220;High Fidelity.&#8221;  He said that he, like many people, experiences music autobiographically.  (Interestingly enough, <a href="https://twitter.com/shockozulu/status/2334397116">he posted a Tweet himself that captured that sentiment</a>.)  And that&#8217;s what I keep thinking of.  I imagine it was similar to how anyone whose childhood was marked by Elvis&#8217; music felt after hearing the news that he died, but this was also different because Michael Jackson had symbolism beyond the revolution he caused in the entertainment industry.</p>
<p>As a black man (who later underwent so much surgery that he stopped <em>looking</em> like a black man) some of the biggest leaders in the black community (specifically Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton) were featured on the news today discussing their reactions.  Elvis&#8217; daughter was Michael&#8217;s ex-wife, who also issued a press release mourning his passing.  And celebrities across the spectrum of fame &#8212; from Guns-n-Rose&#8217;s <a href="http://twitter.com/SlashHudson/status/2336134123">Slash</a> to <a href="http://twitter.com/Alyssa_Milano/status/2334172517">Alyssa Milano</a> &#8212; made public statements reflecting on the impact that Michael Jackson had on culture generally and their life specifically.</p>
<p>Of course, it pains me that a gossip rag like TMZ was the first to break the story.  Like many people, I refused to believe it until a credible source confirmed it.  But eventually the <a href="http://www.latimes.com/news/obituaries/la-me-jackson-obit26-2009jun26,0,1970798.story">LA Times</a> did (followed by <a href="http://www.cbs.com/cbs_evening_news/video.php?cid=Entertainment&amp;pid=1J2paX7YB_QwApTDXdD_07WKBe8VXmz0&amp;show=all&amp;offset=0&amp;play=true">CBS</a> and <a href="http://www.time.com/time/arts/article/0,8599,1907344,00.html">Time Magazine</a>), and then it hit me:  my first awareness of the outside music industry &#8212; the idea that music came from something beyond what my parent&#8217;s liked or listened to &#8212; was Michael Jackson.  I&#8217;m sure my husband would probably quip that may be the reason I&#8217;m not really a huge music person (for the most part), but the fact is that Michael Jackson was one of the fun, positive memories of the 80&#8242;s &#8212; which were, by and large, a fairly dark decade, dominated by Ronald Reagan&#8217;s political ideology played up in the form of the Cold War.</p>
<p>Earlier this week <a href="https://twitter.com/alora/status/2314839948">I Tweeted about how old I was feeling at listening to the very young staff members in my office bag on Bon Jovi and make snarky comments about it not being 1987</a> (wah!), and I have to say, Michael Jackson&#8217;s death may make me feel even older than 20-year-olds capping on the &#8220;Slippery When Wet&#8221; album.  But, then again, a 20-year-old has never owned an actual album.  Yet one more reason for me to feel old.</p>
<p>R.I.P. Michael.  Your passing is a sober reminder that we are all getting older, and that like the generations before, eventually we all become the ones who think the young kids music is crap and that things were better &#8220;when I was your age&#8230;&#8221;  Generation X will mourn your loss because of what it means to our own timeline, regardless of our taste in music or the troubles that overshadowed your later years.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Otherwise known as &#8220;How NOT to lead people, teams or projects.&#8221; Alternately, &#8220;What you should never say to anyone you care about.&#8221; the boss won’t go for that. the lawyers won’t go for that. the accountants won’t go for that. the client won’t go for that. the salespeople won’t go for that. the investors won’t [...]


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<p>Otherwise known as &#8220;How NOT to lead people, teams or projects.&#8221;</p>
<p>Alternately, &#8220;What you should never say to anyone you care about.&#8221;</p>
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<li>the boss won’t go for that.
<li>the lawyers won’t go for that.
<li>the accountants won’t go for that.
<li>the client won’t go for that.
<li>the salespeople won’t go for that.
<li>the investors won’t go for that.
<li>So and so won’t like it.
<li>It’s not us.
<li>It won’t fit into our system.
<li>We’re not ready for that yet.
<li>I don’t think it will work.
<li>I don’t understand.
<li>Do you understand?
<li>Will anyone understand?
<li>What will they think of next?
<li>It’s politically incorrect.
<li>It’s too complicated.
<li>It’s too late for that now.
<li>It’s too expensive.
<li>We’ll lose money.
<li>Why?
<li>What!?
<li>Who says?
<li>nobody will want that.
<li>Where are you coming from?
<li>It can’t be done.
<li>Have the committee review it.
<li>Let’s do more research.
<li>Let’s take a vote on it.
<li>Let’s play devil’s advocate.
<li>I’ve never heard of such a thing.
<li>We’ve already tried that.
<li>that’s been done before.
<li>It’s not how we do things here.
<li>We’ve never done anything like that.
<li>We’ll get back to you.
<li>that’s a subject for another meeting.
<li>It creates more problems than it solves.
<li>Sounds like too many problems.
<li>that only solves some of the problems.
<li>that’s going to cause problems.
<li>Here we go again.
<li>that’s unique, but . . .
<li>Very interesting, but . . .
<li>I understand, but . . .
<li>I love it, but . . .
<li>Great idea, but . . .
<li>Yes, but . . .
<li>Sounds simple, but . . .
<li>But . . .
<li>It’s just not for us.
<li>try again.
<li>that sucks.
<li>needs more pizzazz!
<li>I don’t like it.
<li>Have you thought it through?
<li>It won’t sell.
<li>Maybe next time.
<li>Another day.
<li>What are people going to say?
<li>People will think we’re nuts!
<li>that’s BS.
<li>Be realistic.
<li>How about this instead?
<li>Get a grip!
<li>Are you serious?
<li>that turns me off!
<li>the client is too liberal for that.
<li>the client is too conservative for that.
<li>What else do you have?
<li>So!
<li>So what?
<li>Oh . . .
<li>Oh?
<li>Oh, really!
<li>Get real, it’s not feasible.
<li>Sounds crazy!
<li>nobody does that.
<li>Are you kidding me?
<li>that’s too off the wall.
<li>You can’t argue with success.
<li>You can’t fight City Hall.
<li>We don’t have time to do it.
<li>Let’s not reach beyond our grasp.
<li>We’re overextended already.
<li>Let’s wait ‘til we see the numbers.
<li>You’re proposing what?
<li>Let’s not rock the boat.
<li>Silence.
<li>Laughter.
<li>Boos.
<li>Where did that come from?
<li>I’ve got a better idea.
<li>Hey, there’s a recession going on.
<li>We’ve never done anything like that.
<li>the press will kill us.
<li>that’s not your decision to make.
<li>We’ll step on too many toes.
<li>Just leave it to me; I’ll take care of it.
<li>You could lose your job for that . . .
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<p>I had an interesting conversation yesterday after I gave a presentation.  I was talking about the necessary functions &#8212; particularly when it comes to communications, documentation, change management and entry/exit criteria &#8212; of project management in an Agile development process.</p>
<p>The &#8220;interesting&#8221; conversation I had afterward was because one of the attendees (in a private conversation) busted me for never once using the word &#8220;Agile&#8221; in my presentation.  I&#8217;ve told him that it was deliberate, and here&#8217;s why:</p>
<h3>What&#8217;s in a Name?</h3>
<p>&#8220;Agile Development&#8221; is bullshit in and of itself.  I don&#8217;t like or use this phrase because it&#8217;s a dangerous misnomer.  As <a href="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/2009/04/21/why-agile-isnt-just-for-development/">I&#8217;ve written about before</a>, either your entire organization is going to be &#8220;Agile&#8221; or none of it is.  You can&#8217;t just have &#8220;Agile Development&#8221; and expect that Project Management, Design, Testing and everything else won&#8217;t be impacted.  The trouble is that Agile is all too often discussed, described, evaluated and generally understood as it applies to development only, leaving other aspects of the project lifecycle out in the cold.</p>
<h3>The Methodology Myth</h3>
<p>I have been in startup development environments for my entire career.  And if there is one concrete, immutable fact I have learned it is that no startup environment is mature or stable enough to completely adopt and implement any pure methodology within any discipline &#8212; not requirements, not development, not project management, not testing. It simply does not happen &#8212; nor should it.  While most development environments will dabble with some aspects of Agile, the fact is that &#8212; like all process &#8212; it is typically really <a href="http://www.rossdawsonblog.com/weblog/archives/2009/02/enterprise_20_c.html">a hybrid</a> between a couple of different approaches, in combination with some home grown goodies, that is all tossed together to come up with something that fits the organization.  Any other approach is folly.</p>
<h3>You Say Potato, I Say Potaaaaaaaaaaaaato</h3>
<p>One of the problems that has evolved over the years when it comes to Agile is at the heart of it&#8217;s value.  As a methodology, <a href="http://agilemanifesto.org/">Agile is specifically about results</a> more than form or procedure.  As an execution-oriented person in startup environments, I praise the focus on results.  However, as a project manager, I also have to say that I have seen far, far too many developers use the methodology as an excuse for being lazy and sloppy about writing documentation.  I used to debate with one of the Development Managers/Architects at JetBlue all the time: he was a huge advocate of adopting Agile methodologies, and I would always tell him that he needed to be careful of the language he used, unless he wanted to see a backlash from project and functional managers who&#8217;d been burned by this in the past.</p>
<h3>He Said, She Said</h3>
<p>Another problem with the language we use to describe Agile (in combination with the myth that it is or should be a dev-only consideration) is that, grammatically speaking, the word <a href="http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/agile">agile</a> and the name <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Agile_development">Agile</a> are often used interchangeably, even though they are not identical.  This is particularly problematic when it comes to non-tech executives who hear &#8220;agile development&#8221; and think that means they are just going to get their project executed more quickly.  All too often, I&#8217;ve seen Agile evangelists &#8220;sell&#8221; leadership teams on the idea that Agile is the way to go, without ever really explaining (in business-speak) what that means, what that will take and why it is of value.  Even worse, most of the time, those evangelists actually think they really did explain it well.</p>
<h3>Pragmatic Agnosticism</h3>
<p>In the end, however, my biggest reason for not including the word &#8220;Agile&#8221; in my presentation is because, when it comes specifically to the <a href="http://www.ibtech.com.tr/eng/products-services/project-management.html">core project management disciplines</a> of communication, documentation, change management and entry/exit criteria, methodology agnosticism is key.  This is never more true than in a startup where things are guaranteed to change before you have your Gantt Charts unpacked.  Some of the tactical details may be different &#8212; whether it&#8217;s roles and responsibilities, sequence of events, etc. &#8212; the the underlying tenets are the same.  And any project manager who says that communication, documentation and change management are fundamentally different in an Agile environment vs. a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Waterfall_model">Waterfall</a> environment are blowing smoke.</p>
<p>In the end, project management is a disciplined centered around the concept of <a href="http://www.hyperthot.com/pm_meth1.htm">integration</a>.  And integration is about effectively combining the efforts and products of multiple different disciplines into a final product of value.  That can&#8217;t happen without <a href="http://www.hyperthot.com/pm_meth7.htm">communication</a>, which includes at least some degree of written artifact (often around entry/exit criteria), and managing the inevitabilities of change.  So, in a 45-minute presentation, it made more sense to me to skip over the great and eternal methodology debate, and move straight on to the basics that universally apply, regardless of what approach a team is taking to getting the work done.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not entirely sure that the person I was speaking with agreed with my approach.  And, in hindsight, I should have taken a moment at the beginning to state that I was going to be speaking from a methodology neutral standpoint.  Definitely my over-sight there.  I&#8217;ll be more conscientious of that in the future.</p>
<p>But people who want to get religious about a methodology can espouse whatever they like, but in the end, you have to be pragmatic in order to deliver a project (much less a recurring series of projects).  And zealotry is <em>never</em> pragmatic.</p>
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<p>The last speaking quality I want to cover in my series on what makes <a href="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/2009/04/14/qualities-of-a-great-speaker/">a quality public speaker</a> is the ability of a speaker to connect with their audience.  There are thousands of ways to do this, and how a speaker goes about it will often be dictated by a combination of their content (as is often the case when discussing tragedies) or based on their personality (the class clown syndrome is a common approach for this).</p>
<p>A key mistake that speakers often make is in &#8216;preaching to the choir.&#8217;  If they assume their audience is already on the same page that they are when it comes to why they should care about the speaker&#8217;s topic, then the speaker misses the opportunity to get other people on their bandwagon.  I think this is a particular risk at professional conferences/events, because speakers will often assume that all (or at least most) of the audience is coming from the same point of view as they are, so they don&#8217;t need to spend a lot of time or effort getting everyone on the same page.</p>
<p>Particularly in the interactive/web space, this is a fallacy.  The large-scale web world covers a lot of very different disciplines that attract radically different personality types.  A typical event at a conference like SXSW or Web 2.0 Expo will have audience members who are both executives and individual contributors, tech staff as well as marketing people, Baby Boomers and Gen Y, early adopters and ludite-inclined pragmatists, small company startup entrepreneurs and large enterprise, career professionals.  The gulf among audience members is huge and should never be neglected.  Even at smaller, more specialized conferences like PubCon South the array of specialities in the audience was very broad.  Neglecting to take this into account when speaking is a mistake that several speakers continue to make.</p>
<p>As with my assessment of the first two qualities, <a href="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/2009/04/15/great-speaker-educational-content/">Educational Value</a> and <a href="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/2009/04/17/qualities-of-a-great-speaker-authenticity/">Authenticity</a>, here are the list of the speakers I saw recently and how I&#8217;d rate them when it comes to their ability to connect with an audience.</p>
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<td valign="top" width="170"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/charlene-li.jpg" alt="Charlene Li" title="Charlene Li" width="150" height="225" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-753" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://blog.altimetergroup.com/">Charlene Li</a></h2>
<p><b>Connection with the Audience:</b> <font color="Red">C</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>There is probably some irony to the fact that, at SXSW, Charlene Li&#8217;s discussion about the future of social networks (that they&#8217;d be ubiquitous, so that they&#8217;re impact would be more connective and meaningful) really kind of missed the mark.  There were examples she used that illustrated her point, but none of them were particularly meaningful ways for her to connect to the audience, and I think this is for two reasons: the aforementioned authenticity problem, and the fact that most of what she was saying was very strategic, and therefore abstract.  While that is what she is hired to do on a daily basis, again, it made her sound like she was talking to an Executive Committee, not an audience of practitioners, fans and people looking to learn.  Much of what she was saying was too high level and far removed from people&#8217;s immediate reality to be anything more personal than a moderately interesting intellectual exercise.</p>
<p>Again, her panel with <a href="http://www.beingpeterkim.com/">Peter Kim</a> and <a href="http://www.web-strategist.com/blog/">Jeremiah Owyang</a> at Expo was the opposite.  Because their topic was specifically about the ways in which organizations are unsuccessful in their attempts to implement social networking, the entire discussion was much more specific and tactical.  It was therefore much more relatable for the audience.  And people came away from it with a much stronger sense of value, and a much clearer sense of how the topic could relate to their daily lives.  So, again, Charlene&#8217;s score is a mid-point between two opposite extremes.
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/chris-anderson.jpeg" alt="Chris Anderson" title="Chris Anderson" width="150" height="180" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-754" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://www.longtail.com/about.html">Chris Anderson</a></h2>
<p><b>Connection with the Audience:</b> <font color="Red">C</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Chris Anderson seemed to be relying on Guy to help him find a way to connect with the audience (or, maybe more accurately, was simply relying on Guy to be the one to connect with the audience).  Chris seemed to fall victim to his intellect and his discomfort with the spotlight, and it seemed that whatever bit of audience-connecting he accomplished was mostly due to circumstance.  Because much of his point was based on economic theory and a lot abstract philosophy being manifested in our current Industrial-to-Information Age transition, if this isn&#8217;t a topic that someone already cared a lot about, by himself, Anderson probably wasn&#8217;t enough to get them interested.  Kawasaki&#8217;s influence and audience participation provided whatever degree of connection to the audience this talk ultimately managed.
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/chris-brogan.jpg" alt="Chris Brogan" title="Chris Brogan" width="150" height="140" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-755" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://www.chrisbrogan.com/">Chris Brogan</a></h2>
<p><b>Connection with the Audience:</b> <font color="Red">B</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Chris Brogan&#8217;s ability to connect with the audience is definitely enhanced by his level of authenticity.  But, from what I saw, in most cases it is facilitated most by responding to specific audience questions.  On his own, Brogan is much like Kawasaki in that he is authentic and entertaining, but will spend more time telling stories that make you laugh, than with connecting to an audience&#8217;s personal experience much beyond than that.  However, given the opportunity to do some Q&#038;A, he does make up for that a bit.
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/gary-vaynerchuk.jpg" alt="Gary Vaynerchuk" title="Gary Vaynerchuk" width="150" height="113" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-756" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://garyvaynerchuk.com/">Gary Vaynerchuk</a></h2>
<p><b>Connection with the Audience:</b> <font color="Red">A</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Gary Vaynerchuk is all about enthusiastically connecting with his audience.  When the moderator for his talk made it clear that the one hour he was on stage was basically going to be nothing but Q&#038;A with the audience, Gary was visibly excited and eagerly jumped in to get the ball rolling.  Every answer he gave was enthusiastic, personal and (often) disarmingly honest.  When one woman asked if she could have a hug, he bounded off the stage, and gave her a bear hug that lifted her off the ground.  Gary&#8217;s highly social nature made every single person who asked him a question feel like they were the center of the conversation.  Every speaker who wants to understand how to better engage an audience should see Gary speak to a large crowd at least once, because it&#8217;s a very compelling case study for the value of connecting with the audience.
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/guy-kawasaki.jpg" alt="Guy Kawasaki" title="Guy Kawasaki" width="150" height="200" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-629" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://blog.guykawasaki.com/">Guy Kawasaki</a></h2>
<p><b>Connection with the Audience:</b> <font color="Red">B</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Guy Kawasaki walks the line a bit at times between engaging the audience very directly, and merely talking to them.  It&#8217;s an interesting dance to watch, and one that he can probably only get away with because he is funny and charming and authentic enough to avoid having it come across as unpleasantly arrogant. On the other hand, Guy is also probably one of the more adaptive speakers I saw all conference season, and he&#8217;s very able to shift gears mid-speach if it proves necessary.  He was also the only one I saw who went from interviewee to interviewer, which he handled exceptionally well (though, as interviewer he still dominated the conversation a bit at times; though I do think it was situation-appropriate, given that it seemed to be part of what Chris Anderson needed in order to keep things flowing fairly comfortably).  So I&#8217;d say that Guy gets a decent grade when it comes to connecting with an audience, because he clearly knows how to do it &#8212; it seems to be just a matter of whether or not he feels like it at the time.
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/lawrence-lessig.jpg" alt="Larry Lessig" title="Larry Lessig" width="150" height="211" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-757" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://www.lessig.org/blog/">Larry Lessig</a></h2>
<p><b>Connection with the Audience:</b> <font color="Red">D</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Unfortunately Larry Lessig&#8217;s authenticity did not help him much when it came to connecting with his audience.  It could have &#8212; and in another format, it may have been easier for him to do &#8212; but in the end, because he didn&#8217;t find a way to truly get the audience to understand where he was coming from, his authentically passionate conviction on his topic was almost wasted.  Again, this is probably a good example of why the format is so important, because Larry&#8217;s topics of interest are so big, they require time to develop the context in order for his points to be truly relatable.  The irony is that most people in this space are probably highly pre-disposed to agreeing with much of what he has to say; but the problem is that, if you didn&#8217;t come in the room knowing that already, you didn&#8217;t get enough perspective from the discussion to be able to be on the same wave-length as Larry when he started getting passionate about some of his points.  In the end, Larry was preaching to a very small choir of people who came into the room already knowing that they agreed with him, instead of showing the majority of the audience that what he was saying does, in fact, relate to them and show them why they should (or do) care about it.  Again, in another format this may have worked better, but as part of a larger panel, he did not have the opportunity to flesh this out.
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/matt-cutts.jpg" alt="Matt Cutts" title="Matt Cutts" width="150" height="204" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-626" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://www.mattcutts.com/blog/">Matt Cutts</a></h2>
<p><b>Connection with the Audience:</b> <font color="Red">A</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Matt Cutts had an interesting challenge at PubCon South: he was announcing a new technology release from his team, and had to make a room full of non-technical people understand why they should care and why it was actually relevant to them.  Not an easy task, but one which was largely successful.  So Matt ends up with major props for connecting with his audience.  And even after he moved on to other topics, both in terms of the things he chose to speak about and the ways in which he answered questions, were all very deliberately centered around an audience point of view.  He never once talked over their heads (which would have been easy to do inadvertantly), and yet he never &#8220;dumbed down&#8221; his answers so much that he sounded patronizing.  It was a very effective line to walk, and one that allowed him to connect to both technical and non-technical members of the audience at the same time.
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/tony-hsieh.jpg" alt="Tony Hsieh" title="Tony Hsieh" width="150" height="150" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-758" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://about.zappos.com/meet-our-monkeys/tony-hsieh-ceo">Tony Hsieh</a></h2>
<p><b>Connection with the Audience:</b> <font color="Red">A</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Tony Hsieh did a great job connecting with his audience because his theme is so universal: everyone wants to feel valued and everyone wants to be happy.  His entire talk was about building an organization and developing a culture where individuals feel like they are contributing value and providing tactical, relatable examples of how Zappos does this, and what makes their approach different from the way other organizations do this.  Combined with his very authentic (nervous) style, Tony&#8217;s message very strongly resonates with the audience, because it is about fixing something that is fundamentally broken in so many companies &#8212; yet it&#8217;s something that is a universal human craving.
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<p>The clearest lesson to me when it came to connecting with an audience was about the difference between a strategic discussion and a tactical one.  Connecting with an audience is about making what you have to say truly relevant to them, and in most cases this needs concrete, personal examples.  While some of us do enjoy the higher level theory and philosophy, that isn&#8217;t the way to get your message to resonate with the majority of an audience.  If you want people to walk out of the room feeling inspired, they have to feel empowered.  Abstract theory rarely does that.</p>
<p>The next biggest lesson was about a speaker&#8217;s energy level.  It is contegeous.  This is why Charlene Li sounding like a consultant presenting a PowerPoint to a group of investors could never compare to Gary Vaynerchuk bounding off the stage to give a woman in an audience a hug that lifted her off her feet.  And while one could argue that it is an apples-to-oranges comparison (and I wouldn&#8217;t disagree), in the end it doesn&#8217;t matter, because the bottom line is that, as a speaker, your goal should always be to leave an audience feeling like the time they gave you was a worthwhile investment on their part.  At SXSW Gary and Charlene spoke in the same room to about the same size audience.  When Charlene&#8217;s event was over, people shuffled out of the room and meandered down the halls to their next destination.  Conversely, when Gary&#8217;s event was over, the energy level of the audience was sky-high.  People flew out of the room, eager to get to their next event, and so energized that they were ready to take on the world.  The difference was staggering and impossible to miss.</p>
<p>All in all, watching the variety of speakers on the array of topics I saw was an intersting evaluation of quality.  Obviously some were better than others.  Some tried to rely strictly on content; while others relied exclusively on personal style.  I think that both of those are a mistake and undermined the end result, because you need both to at least some degree in order to leave an audience with a great experience.</p>
<p>Ultimately, like all other talents, public speaking comes very naturally to some people, while other people really have to work at it in order to be good.  So while I would never say it&#8217;s something that &#8216;anyone can do with enough practice,&#8217; I will say that you don&#8217;t have to be a natural in order to find a way to become good at it with time and effort &#8212; assuming you are properly motivated.</p>
<p>I&#8217;d be interested to hear what you think.  Disagree with my assessment of these speakers strengths and weaknesses?  Think I missed an important quality that makes a difference?  Please leave me a comment and let me know.</p>
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<p>In <a href="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/2009/04/14/qualities-of-a-great-speaker/">my original blog post on this topic</a>, the second quality I listed as being necessary in a great speaker is authenticity.  Authenticity is difficult to quantify, but we know it when we see it.  And when it comes to a speaker, it makes a huge difference in how we view what they say.</p>
<p>A speaker&#8217;s authenticity can come from any number of places: it can be rooted in the passion they feel for their subject matter, or it can be rooted in their expertise; it can be conveyed through confidence, or it can be conveyed through anxiety.  More often than not, authenticity is the key to the third quality, which is whether or not a speaker is able to connect with an audience.  It is probably just about impossible to think that you can connect with an audience without first being authentic (though, it is possible to be authentic without connecting with the audience), and so authenticity has an almost disproportionate impact on the over-all audience experience.</p>
<p>As with my assessment of the first quality, <a href="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/2009/04/15/great-speaker-educational-content/">Educational Value</a>, here are the list of the speakers I saw recently and how I&#8217;d rate them.</p>
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<td valign="top" width="170"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/charlene-li.jpg" alt="Charlene Li" title="Charlene Li" width="150" height="225" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-753" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://blog.altimetergroup.com/">Charlene Li</a></h2>
<p><b>Speaker&#8217;s Authenticity:</b> <font color="Red">C</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Charlene Li is an interesting case when it comes to speaker&#8217;s authenticity, and it raises a point that most people may not consider: format and it&#8217;s effect on how comfortable a speaker is.  I eagerly looked forward to the opportunity to see Charlene speak at SXSW.  She was on the big stage, alone, in front of an audience of about 1300 people.  Her content was solid as mentioned before, but I still walked away from that event completely disappointed.  Why?  Because she spoke to the audience like she was talking to a Board of Directors.  She did not strike the right note with the audience, and it made her sound, well, like a consultant: overly polished, overly managed, overly trained and &#8212; ultimately &#8212; inauthentic.  It took me several days before I could get past the ill-fitting style to retrace my memory and find much in the way of interesting nuggets in her content.  Definitely not what you want if you are a speaker.</p>
<p>Conversely, when Charlene spoke at Web 2.0 Expo it was on a panel with her friends Peter Kim and Jeremiah Owyang.  And instead of sounding stiff and removed from her audience the way she did at SXSW, she sounded engaged, sincere and authentic.  She was much more human during her Expo speaking engagement, and my suspicion is that it was due to, in some combination, having a smaller, less formal setting, and sharing the stage (and thereby the dialogue) with other people &#8212; particularly with friends and former colleagues she knows well enough to relax and truly trust.  In the end, it made all the difference, and I wished it had been the first time I&#8217;d seen her speak instead of SXSW, because it was much closer to the experience I&#8217;d been hoping for and expecting.  So she gets a very low score for authenticity for the SXSW talk, and then gets it brought back up a bit thanks to a salvaging performance at Expo.</p>
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/chris-anderson.jpeg" alt="Chris Anderson" title="Chris Anderson" width="150" height="180" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-754" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://www.longtail.com/about.html">Chris Anderson</a></h2>
<p><b>Speaker&#8217;s Authenticity:</b> <font color="Red">B</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Chris Anderson is another interesting example, because based on a distant view, he strikes me as an introvert who recognizes that public speaking is part of what he needs to do, both in his role as Editor of Wired and as an author of high-profile business books.  But nothing in how he presents himself &#8212; either in person or online &#8212; particularly suggests that he&#8217;s so much of a ham that he truly loves that side of his work (see his very unassuming online presence, and you&#8217;ll understand what I mean).  And while I could certainly be wrong, my suspicion is that the reason his engagement at SXSW was formatted the way it was (an onstage &#8220;interview&#8221; conducted by Guy Kawasaki) was precisely for that reason (and to take advantage of the fact that Guy most certainly is a ham who enjoys being onstage).  Whatever the reason, Chris came across as extremely authentic, but a little bit shell shocked at times.  Clearly Chris is a very bright person, but part of the reason I got the feeling he was nervous was because when he&#8217;d get &#8216;in a zone&#8217; while he was talking about something he was clearly confident about, he&#8217;d relax and he could be spontaneous and exchange quips with Guy.  But other times, it appeared as though he was so aware of the audience/lights/being on stage, that he would be out-of-step and miss easy opportunities to maintain his end of the repartee.  It didn&#8217;t have a huge impact on his authenticity necessarily, but it was a little distracting at times.  All in all, though, Chris gets a solid score for authenticity.
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/chris-brogan.jpg" alt="Chris Brogan" title="Chris Brogan" width="150" height="140" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-755" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://www.chrisbrogan.com/">Chris Brogan</a></h2>
<p><b>Speaker&#8217;s Authenticity:</b> <font color="Red">A</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Chris Brogan is a ham.  Pure and simple.  He is relaxed, entertaining, amusing and engaging when he speaks &#8212; when it comes to both the people with whom he is sharing the stage, as well as the audience.  He goes to the opposite extreme of what we saw of Charlene Li at SXSW, in that he doesn&#8217;t come across as stiff or stiffled or repressed in any way.  His emotion is genuine and spontaneous, and if he gets annoyed or disagrees with something someone says, his response is entirely from the gut.  While this may not be the quality that a Fortune 500 looks for in a highly polished consultant, this makes Chris an absolute winner with audiences (and makes it easier for him to skate through events where educational content is a little bit thin).
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/gary-vaynerchuk.jpg" alt="Gary Vaynerchuk" title="Gary Vaynerchuk" width="150" height="113" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-756" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://garyvaynerchuk.com/">Gary Vaynerchuk</a></h2>
<p><b>Speaker&#8217;s Authenticity:</b> <font color="Red">A</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Gary Vaynerchuk is off-the-charts.  Ham doesn&#8217;t even come close.  And, because he operates at the perpetually high emotional pitch that he does, I doubt he could be inauthentic if his life depended on it (in fact, one of his stories was specifically about how, no matter how much he hated breaking his mother&#8217;s heart as a child, no amount of loving his mom could keep him from &#8216;being himself&#8217; in school &#8212; which typically amounted to lousy grades and getting into constant trouble).  He is like young kid who has yet to refine his social filters, and so he highly excitable.  Fortunately, he also has an extremely positive and upbeat disposition, so his excitability is usually both optimistic and contagious.  While Gary&#8217;s style is most definitely not everyone&#8217;s cup of tea, if what you crave most in a speaker is unvarnished authenticity, then I suggest making the effort to see Gary speak when you get the chance.</td>
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/guy-kawasaki.jpg" alt="Guy Kawasaki" title="Guy Kawasaki" width="150" height="200" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-629" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://blog.guykawasaki.com/">Guy Kawasaki</a></h2>
<p><b>Speaker&#8217;s Authenticity:</b> <font color="Red">A</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Guy Kawasaki is an interesting individual to see in action.  I saw him twice in less than a week, and the first time he was being interviewed (by Chris Brogan) and the second time he was the one conducting the interview (Chris Anderson).  And both times it was clear that, if Guy ever did have stage fright, he&#8217;s long-since conquered it.  It seems unlikely, though.  Like Brogan and Vaynerchuk, my money is on the idea that Guy is just a bit of an entertainer at heart, and enjoys being on stage.  As a result, he is relaxed, engaging and clearly able to help put someone who is less comfortable (like Chris Anderson) at ease a bit by being on stage with them, and difusing some of the spotlight glare.  He also banters well with an audience, and plays to their leanings, which further enhances his authenticity, because it shows he&#8217;s listening.  Guy also comes across as a bit on the cocky side, but that&#8217;s easy to understand given his background.  He manages to avoid being so cocky that he ends up being truly off-putting.
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<h2><a href="http://www.lessig.org/blog/">Larry Lessig</a></h2>
<p><b>Speaker&#8217;s Authenticity:</b> <font color="Red">A</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Larry Lessig is almost too authentic for his own good in some ways.  Because he feels so passionately about the work he is doing, when he speaks about it he can get very emotional &#8212; sometimes disproportionately to those around him.  Lessig is at a bit of a disadvantage in my comparison because he&#8217;s the only speaker I am evaluating whom I only saw as part of a panel with other people, but the lessons I saw from that were very telling: he clearly feels very strongly about his causes, but (like many activists) he is lives with his subject matter every day, and sometimes seems to forget that his audience may not be as well-versed in his topic as he is.  And so he can end up looking a little bit emotional if he doesn&#8217;t make sure he is bringing his audience along with him.  I&#8217;ll get to this more in the next post, but on the actual authenticity front, Lessig scores high.
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<h2><a href="http://www.mattcutts.com/blog/">Matt Cutts</a></h2>
<p><b>Speaker&#8217;s Authenticity:</b> <font color="Red">A</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Matt Cutts is one of my favorite surprises from conference season.  Matt is a well-known figure in the world of search and SEO/SEM.  Not coming from that world, I had no idea who he was when he got on stage.  And I was pleasantly surprised by everything I saw, not the least of which was that, as a man in a profession that is highly populated with extreme introverts, Matt was impressively relaxed in front of an audience.  He had news he was excited to share, and he was very engaging, funny, charming and sincere in his interactions with the audience.  His enthusiasm was contegeous and his demeanor was highly approachable.  All in all, Matt gets high points for authenticity.
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/tony-hsieh.jpg" alt="Tony Hsieh" title="Tony Hsieh" width="150" height="150" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-758" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://about.zappos.com/meet-our-monkeys/tony-hsieh-ceo">Tony Hsieh</a></h2>
<p><b>Speaker&#8217;s Authenticity:</b> <font color="Red">A</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Tony Hsieh is so authentic it almost hurts.  And what is particularly interesting, is that Tony&#8217;s authenticity is for reasons that are almost the polar opposite of Brogan, Vaynerchuk or Kawasaki&#8217;s: it&#8217;s because he stands on-stage and looks like a man terrified of being there, nervous as hell, but yet so passionate about his message that he&#8217;s learned to beat back his anxiety over the years.  It was a very interesting example to watch, because there were times when he looked tremendously nervous and uncomfortable, but was clearly pushing through to the other side.  He rarely looked relaxed, and it makes me wonder if maybe a different format (a la the Brogan/Kawasaki or Kawasaki/Anderson &#8220;interviews&#8221;) may have helped keep him from feeling as &#8216;put on the spot,&#8217; but he gets definite props for pushing through his own discomfort to share his story, specifically because it&#8217;s clear that not only is he very proud of what his people have accomplished, but that he is sincere in his hope that others can learn from what they&#8217;ve done and build organizations in a more humane and positive way.</td>
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<p>I saw <a href="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/2009/04/09/lessons-from-conference-coverage/">tons of people speak over the course of conference season</a> to date, and each speaker&#8217;s authenticity was essential to the ultimate value of the time I dedicated to listening to them.  By and large, authenticity was the one thing that most of them had working in their favor &#8212; and, if used properly, it does often help to compensate for a speaker&#8217;s other short-comings.</p>
<p>Have a different take on any of these speakers or on the role of authenticity when it comes to the public speaking experience?</p>
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<p>As noted in <a href="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/2009/04/14/qualities-of-a-great-speaker/">my previous blog post on this topic</a>, the first quality I believe is necessary in a great speaker is for them to be educational in some way.  In my recent bout of conferences, I have seen speakers who fall all over the quality spectrum, but the ones that were truly good ensured they shared something new with an audience.</p>
<p>In the interest of a clean comparison, I will use the same list of speakers &#8212; covering the spectrum of topics &#8212; across all three categories.  A few of these speakers I saw more than once, in which case my ranking takes into account each time I saw them in a public speaking setting, even if the format changed (i.e. if they were a solo speaker in one case vs. on a panel with others in another).</p>
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<h2><a href="http://blog.altimetergroup.com/">Charlene Li</a></h2>
<p><b>Educational Value of Content:</b> <font color="Red">B</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Charlene&#8217;s background as Forrester analyst gives her access to a lot of information.  This is certainly helpful when pulling together a presentation.  While there wasn&#8217;t anything tremendously earth-shattering in her information either time I saw her speak, her content was solid and her examples were clear and well-presented.  Particularly in her main address at SXSW, however, she made at least one leap of logic that she was clearly hoping the audience would share, and seemed a bit surprised and unsure how to respond when there was a difference of opinion.  Her assertion was that Google &#8220;wouldn&#8217;t dare&#8221; violate their user&#8217;s trust by compromising their personal data. She left this as a blanket statement without explaining on why she felt this was the case. An audience of 1,300 people were not as universally quick to buy into her belief as she was.</p>
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/chris-anderson.jpeg" alt="Chris Anderson" title="Chris Anderson" width="150" height="180" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-754" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://www.longtail.com/about.html">Chris Anderson</a></h2>
<p><b>Educational Value of Content:</b> <font color="Red">A</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Though probably best known as the Editor of <a href="http://www.wired.com/">Wired</a> and the author of <a href="http://www.thelongtail.com/">The Long Tail</a>, Chris was on-stage at SXSW (with Guy Kawasaki) principally to discuss his new book, <a href="http://www.wired.com/techbiz/it/magazine/16-03/ff_free?currentPage=all">Free</a>.  From a content standpoint, Chris knows his stuff.  And I was in a constant scramble to jot down notes of things he was saying that I wanted to research in more depth later, because he was making some great points and doing some very interesting historical and economic comparisons.  He clearly had the material for a graduate seminar that would have been very interesting, and it was too bad the schedule and format did not allow him to share more.</td>
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/chris-brogan.jpg" alt="Chris Brogan" title="Chris Brogan" width="150" height="140" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-755" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://www.chrisbrogan.com/">Chris Brogan</a></h2>
<p><b>Educational Value of Content:</b> <font color="Red">D</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>In the multiple times I saw Chris speak in the month of March, I am not sure I honestly remember once where he shared a piece of new information.  He gets props in other areas, but educational value was very low.  He had a couple of anecdotes that were insightful, and the questions he had for Guy Kawasaki during their &#8220;fireside chat&#8221; at PubCon elicited some good discussion, so he gets a bit of credit on that front.  By and large, though, the strengths Chris demonstrated during the times that I saw him were not in the educational value of his content.</td>
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/gary-vaynerchuk.jpg" alt="Gary Vaynerchuk" title="Gary Vaynerchuk" width="150" height="113" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-756" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://garyvaynerchuk.com/">Gary Vaynerchuk</a></h2>
<p><b>Educational Value of Content:</b> <font color="Red">B</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Gary is a sneaky devil who walks the line on content.  In a perfect situation, he will spend his entire talk on audience Q&#038;A and entirely avoid the need to generate original content himself.  He&#8217;ll &#8216;crowdsource&#8217; his content by leaving it up to the audience and simply answering their questions.  So I&#8217;d mark him down points on that, but then give him high marks for providing good, detailed, tactical answers that <i>are</i> chock full of actual educational content.  And, as a person with a tremendous curiosity and range of interests (and deep expertise in some areas), he ends up being a font of juicy nuggets of information &#8212; assuming someone thinks to ask questions in the right areas.</td>
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/guy-kawasaki.jpg" alt="Guy Kawasaki" title="Guy Kawasaki" width="150" height="200" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-629" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://blog.guykawasaki.com/">Guy Kawasaki</a></h2>
<p><b>Educational Value of Content:</b> <font color="Red">C</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Aside from good anecdotes, Guy seems to reserve most educational content for his written efforts (Twitter, blog, books, etc.), and uses his speaking engagements for the &#8220;lighter-weight&#8221; aspects of personal branding.  To be sure, some of his anecdotes are phenomenal, but they usually play more towards humor and simply being &#8220;good stories&#8221; than being truly valuable, reusable lessons or insights.  Though, to be fair, he did toss out a few gems here and there, and out of the handful of times I saw him speak, I did get a few particularly good ideas &#8212; though these seemed to be very tool-specific, based on the opinion of a self-avowed technology lover.  He did also do a good job of eliciting good content out of Chris Anderson during their shared event at SXSW.</td>
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/lawrence-lessig.jpg" alt="Larry Lessig" title="Larry Lessig" width="150" height="211" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-757" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://www.lessig.org/blog/">Larry Lessig</a></h2>
<p><b>Educational Value of Content:</b> <font color="Red">A</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Larry is a lawyer, a professor, a writer, an activist and the founder of <a href="http://www.creativecommons.org">Creative Commons</a>. He is all about the content (literally and figuratively, as a matter of fact).  I&#8217;ll cover style in a subsequent post, but his content was detailed, specific and entirely relevant to the topic at hand.  If you could write fast enough to keep up with him, you&#8217;d easily get valuable information when he speaks.</td>
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/matt-cutts.jpg" alt="Matt Cutts" title="Matt Cutts" width="150" height="204" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-626" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://www.mattcutts.com/blog/">Matt Cutts</a></h2>
<p><b>Educational Value of Content:</b> <font color="Red">A</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>Matt knows his stuff cold. Inside and out.  And he is there to share information.  So Matt gets all A&#8217;s when it comes to content.  As a developer, Matt can give super technical information (and did); but as a smart speaker, he knows how to de-geekify his content when his audience is not developer-centric.  So he gets double-points on content: not only is it valuable, but he also de-mystifies what could easily be intimidating material and makes it extremely accessible for non-technical audiences.  He also has a great advantage over some speakers when it comes to content: because his main topic (search) is a constantly evolving field, his material is always being updated, so there is no real danger of content stagnation with Matt.</td>
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<td valign="top"><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/tony-hsieh.jpg" alt="Tony Hsieh" title="Tony Hsieh" width="150" height="150" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-758" /></td>
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<h2><a href="http://about.zappos.com/meet-our-monkeys/tony-hsieh-ceo">Tony Hsieh</a></h2>
<p><b>Educational Value of Content:</b> <font color="Red">A</font><br />
<br /><b>Details:</b>From what I heard from people who&#8217;d seen Tony at previous speaking events, his content didn&#8217;t really change much, so if you&#8217;ve seen him once, you may have already heard most of what he had to say, but if you haven&#8217;t seen him yet, make sure you do at the first available opportunity.  His message on leadership, management, building a company, brand and culture is packed with valuable information.  Like Guy Kawasaki, he uses lots of anecdotes.  The difference is that his are targeting a point, rather than merely being entertaining.  His stories are well-selected to illustrate his points, and his points are insightful and compelling.  I found it common that he would speak on topics I knew a lot about, and still managed to say something new.</td>
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<p>So these are my scores for the educational value of the content.  As I&#8217;ve mentioned before, I saw <a href="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/2009/04/09/lessons-from-conference-coverage/">tons of people speak over the course of conference season</a> to date.  I selected these examples here because they are well-known names most people have heard of.  I also selected them because they represented a great cross-section of public speaking strengths and weaknesses in the three areas I outlined as essential: educational value, authenticity and emotionally connecting with the audience.</p>
<p>Have you seen any of these speakers and have different experiences about their content?</p>
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<p><img src="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/04/microphone-stage-204x300.jpg" alt="Speaker&#039;s Microphone on Stage" title="Speaker&#039;s Microphone on Stage" width="204" height="300" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-737" />I admit it: I am &#8220;an oratorical snob.&#8221; I have very high standards when it comes to what I like to hear and see from a speaker at an event or show.  Having grown up in a small business-centric environment, public speaking is in my blood and I cut my teeth on motivational and business speaking events of all types before I was even out of elementary school.</p>
<p>And then, like most mouthy, extroverted, overly-opinionated, &#8220;smart kids&#8221; I was always involved in speech and debate throughout school, because it was simply <i>fun</i>. (That, and the fact that I had always planned on law school and a career in politics.)</p>
<p>So, as an adult in the business world (a healthy distance from politics, as it turns out), I often find myself very disappointed in public speakers.  Particularly in the new era of &#8220;social media celebrity,&#8221; where public speakers are often put on stage because they have developed a good brand because they have written a popular book or blog &#8212; despite the fact that, as a very solitary function, writing tends to attract introverts, whereas the best public speakers are typically extroverts. </p>
<p>There are aspects of this time-honored art that are being neglected by a great many speakers &#8212; with an increasingly frustrating frequency &#8212; these days.  This was never clearer to me than at the several conferences I have attended over the past couple of months.</p>
<p>Watching the way different speakers handle themselves and an audience has made me sit back and ask, &#8220;What do I look for in a speaker?&#8221;  Some of the answers are a bit wishy-washy (e.g. Depends on the subject/context/etc.), but some of them are actually not.</p>
<p>This clip from The West Wing is a great illustration of my point:</p>
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<p>There are three things that every single speaker should be able to do if they are going to ask for your undivided attention.  It is the price they should be prepared to pay for your time.  They do not need to provide all three in equal parts, but all three need to be present to some degree.  Without any one of them, the time spent listening to them speak could better be put elsewhere.</p>
<h2>The 3 Critical Qualities of Public Speaking</h2>
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<li><b>Educational</b> &#8211; A speaker should provide enough new information that members of the audience walk out of the room with a new insight, perspective or even simple fact that they did not have when the session began.
<li><b>Authentic</b> &#8211; A speaker&#8217;s authenticity is their currency with an audience.  If, for even a moment, a speaker appears or sounds inauthentic, their content &#8212; no matter how good &#8212; can lose credibility.
<li><b>Emotionally Connective</b> &#8211; A speaker&#8217;s ability to emotionally connect with an audience &#8212; whether by being vulnerable, by making them laugh, or by motivating them into action &#8212; is what an audience will ultimately remember most.  Human beings are emotionally-driven creatures, and a speaker who ignore that aspect of the human experience never be as compelling.
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<p>Over the rest of the week, I will follow-up with a post on each of these three qualities, and good and bad examples from all of the various speakers I have personally seen.</p>
<p>Do you disagree that these three are the key qualities?  Have any examples of any that are particularly good or particularly bad?</p>
<p>Follow-up Posts:</p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/2009/04/15/great-speaker-educational-content/">Educational Value of Content</a></p>
<li><a href="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/2009/04/17/qualities-of-a-great-speaker-authenticity/">Authenticity</a>
<li><a href="http://www.alorachistiakoff.com/2009/04/18/qualities-of-a-great-speaker-connecting-with-the-audience/">Connection with Audience</a></ul>
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